well, since nobody is perfect, this section of my site will publicly crucify me and call me out by covering my red and yellow flags because why not, and i want people to know what the fuck they're getting into when they have me in their life.
(most of these are things lots of people like)
i am overprotective to the point that i've actually made some people who have hurt my friends scared of me lol. on the flip side of this, as I said in the general about me, it means i will always make sure you're safe and if you get into some insane, chaotic psycho situation straight out of a movie, like you've been kidnapped, i will raise hell to get you safe, or die trying, so take this as you will.
i say this because i constantly psychoanalyze people, noting their behaviors and reading crazy far into what people say because all my life i've had to do this to stay safe, so i may call you out a bit or do this with you, but i'll only say something when i'm very sure i'm correct, and it'll always be in a constructive manner.
so i'm fine with things that a lot of people consider bad. Immortality? totally fine with it, i lived a delusion where i thought i had it. being loved by a villain who's obsessive as hell? totally fine with it. and i'm fine with a lot of other complex concepts and ideas that most people are not ok with, and they just fit nicely in my mind. i'm considering this a yellow flag because some of these? i want them, not only am i ok with them, i want them. call me intelligent because i know how to balance out the negatives, call me unstable for wanting some of these, or call me wise for knowing how to handle these things long term, i don't really care, but i'm considering this a yellow flag.
(this was in the red section but since discovering booktok and those communities i've decided to move it to yellow)